Origin and naming
From legal 'pleading' — arguing one's case. Special pleading is pleading for your own case to be treated specially: accepting the rule in general while quietly exempting yourself, without a reason that would convince anyone else.
More places it shows up
- 01
Everyone's internet use at work is monitored, says the director — but his own browsing must stay private for 'strategic reasons he can't disclose'.
- 02
A diet coach insists calories explain all weight gain, except her own plateau, which is caused by stress hormones.
- 03
A columnist demands every public official release their tax returns, but calls requests for his own returns 'harassment with a political agenda'.
- 04
Parents enforce a strict no-phone-at-dinner rule, except for dad's phone, because his calls are important.
How to spot it
- Notice when the exception's justification is a quality only the speaker claims to have — importance, sensitivity, special circumstances.
- Notice when the same justification, offered by anyone else, would be laughed off.
- Notice when asking 'so the rule applies to whom, then?' narrows it to an audience of one.